My husbands intentions are good, but he doesn’t realize the energy it takes to deal with children… I already reached the breaking point and found the house on my own. When he realized I was planning on moving without him, he quickly realized his errors. Now we are moving together, alhamdolilah.

As for your dua’a…guess who would have to watch those 15 kids?!?

I hope the last part was a joke. Surely it was? Your husband didn’t actually come home and call you an ugly name based on little to no information, did he?

If so, hie thee to a competent counselor very quickly or one day you will find yourself using your pc to pound some sense into an obviously thick skull. And I’m not kidding. You won’t plan it, your reaction will just reach a breaking point from one too many criticisms…

May Allah dump fifteen children on your husband while he is locked in a 10×12 room. May Allah lose the key for 8 hours.